"We were just generous when it was convenient or easy."

I could have written this, but it was another "cancer-parent" friend who just posted this on a list we're on.

"People are so amazing. I use to THINK we were generous people before A's was diagnosed. My definition of generous has changed over the past year. We were just generous when it was convenient or easy."

I would write a whole essay about that ... but she summed it all up. Just generous when it was convenient or easy.